Rush

I had this amazing conversation with a well-experienced friend just yesterday. He taught me about patience and the value of waiting for the right time and for the right moment.I'm a kind of person who's always in a rush, coz I know that time changes everything. When I'm in love, I wanna nurture it, take advantage of it while the feeling is still there. I don't wanna hold myself from what I feel and what I want to do. But this guy, he told me that everything that comes instantly won't last. There's this process in everything, if you wanna grow your hair, you have to wait and let its sweet time to pass. Sometimes it takes time before you get what you want, and once you get it, the self-satisfaction is tremendous. This process will let you grow, teach you to wait, give hope, keep you going, let you understand yourself, and will give you the true value of life. These are the things that I'm missing each time I rush things out. Now, I'm trying to apply this in dealing situations like searching for the right one for me. My friend is almost 40 years old, and yet he follows this process and patiently waits for the result, he should be the one rushing not me. I was like knocked out by the thought of losing the one I love because I did not respect this process. Well at least, I now know what to do the next time I meet someone to love.Of course, rushing is not a bad thing at all, there are still things that are worth rushing. But in this case, I need to learn how to wait. Especially if I'm wishing for something that would last forever....