Let's Do It Together

I've met a gay couple, about six month ago. They've been together for 8 years! I was like amazed on how they kept the fire burning the fact that they're living in together and knowing almost everything about each other, but they still find each other sexy.

I got to know them through manjam -- an online gay social networking site. It was like 10 O'clock in the morning when they sent me a message asking me if I'd like to have fun by starting a day with a threesome, I liked the idea so I meet them. They're like in their early 30's but still good looking and of course in shape. When I arrived, they were very warm and friendly, "professional" if I may call it. It took us approximately 20 minutes of light conversation and knowing basic things about each other before we started the party. It was a great play, the players were open and mature. It was one of the plays that I enjoyed.

One thing came into my senses after that, I think they're not doing it because they're not faithful nor they don't find each other attractive anymore, they simply do it to just add twist in their relationship. I've known several couples who does the same thing to keep the relationship going and make it more exciting. I myself, did it once. We cannot ignore the fact that no matter how much we try to keep the attraction for each other, temperature will eventually drop especially when we get too familiar on everything. Every strand of his hair, every freckle on his chest, every wrinkle when he smiles, every time he says "I love you". You'll get used to them not because you're tired of them but because you know they won't go away. And most of the time, we often misinterpret this "security" to something ugly as what we call "falling out of love".