Out of the Box

There are a lot of things to do, to try, and to explore in this world that will give you happiness for a long time.

Happiness can be experienced in many ways, so as love. Love is everywhere, it's not only found in a partnership of two individuals. It can be expressed and acquired by touching the lives of the people around you in your own ways. What matters most is not how much love you received but rather how much love you've given. The more you connect to people, the more you experience life, the more you acquire love, and the more you get the worth of your existence.

I Am Negative, Are You?

Minsan pala hindi lahat ng negative ay pangit.

Approximately more than 5 years ago, nagpa HIV test ako to make sure I'm safe, and turned out negative, buti naman. The doctor said, I should have myself tested regularly especially kung sexually active ako, ('di naman). Some said, twice a year, others said once a year, then I personally asked a doctor how is it done ba talaga. He said, nagma-manifest ang symptoms ng HIV sa katawan ng tao after five years and that's the only time that the virus can be detected. So naisip ko, eh kung kahapon ako na nainfect, I have to wait pa ng 5 years bago magpa test??? hindi naman daw, prevention is better than cure pa rin daw (which I totally agree) and it depends pa din daw sa resistensya ng katawan ng tao.

Dahil na din siguro sa pagiging busy at katamaran, hindi na nasundan pa ang test kong 'yun until yesterday.

Kahapon, I just realized it's been more than 5 years na since my last test, so I guess this is the moment to shine - nagpa-test ulit ako for HIV screening. I got the result today, at ang bonggah, I AM FREAKIN' NEGATIVE!, so I can shout out loud to the world that I am fucking SAFE!!! no matter how promiscuous I am or not.

You might be wondering why am I sharing this? well, first, gusto ko bakit ba? Second, gusto kong magpaka noble paminsan minsan, I WANNA PROMOTE SAFE SEX!!! hindi lang sa same sex, hindi lang sa mga bading, hindi lang sa mga lalaki, hindi lang sa mga babae, kundi sa LAHAT!!!

Okay fine, ignore my previous statement. Eto nalang, if you are spending hundreds para sa gimik, thousands para mga damit, another thousands para sa mga sapatos, HAVING PEACE OF MIND IS TOTALLY PRICELESS.

After this, I am planning to seriously do this twice a year in different hospitals, para mapraktis ang sinasabi nilang different opinions, para sure na sure.

DISCLAIMER:

I am not having myself tested para gumanda ang tingin ng mga tao about me, para i-please ang mga tao, NO!. I am doing this for ME and me alone.

Oh sya, have a happy, satisfying, safe sex to all! Enjoy life! =)

Sa'yo Pa Rin Ang Huling Desisyon

Hindi mahalaga kung iba ang iniisip ng mga tao tungkol sa'yo lalo na kung hindi mo naman alam kung ano ang iniisip nila sayo.

If you lose your virginity to some losers, syempre iisipin ng mga tao ang tanga mo. Pero kung para sa'yo magaling siya sa kama at naka-limang orgasms ka at sobrang nag-enjoy ka, ramdam mong 'di ka pa din dehado baka nga umulit ka pa eh. Kung feeling mo ang ganda-ganda mo sa damit mo kahit iniisip ng mga taong mukha kang pokpok, pero syempre walang nag lakas loob na sabihin sa'yo 'yun at hindi ka aware, at the end of the day ramdam mong maganda ka pa din at papaniwalaan mong yung mga taong tumingin sa'yo ay gandang ganda sa'yo kahit iniisip nilang ang cheap mo. Still, ang masusunod ay kung ano ang pinaniniwalaan mo. Kung feeling mo ikina-sosyal mo na ang pagsabi ng "oh my gosh" sa loob ng jeep kahit mukha kang katulong dahil nagtinginan sa'yo ang mga tao akala mo namangha sila dahil marunong kang mag-english pero ang totoong iniisip nila sayo ay trying hard ka, still you will feel good dahil na boost mo ang morale mo sa sarili mong way. Kung feeling mo mahal ka pa din ng bf mo dahil he still shows that he cares kahit ilang beses mo na siyang nahuling may kalandian, ituloy mo lang dahil through that kahit papano napapa-saya ka pa din niya by believing that he still loves you at gusto mo 'yun. Kung feeling mo ikina-talino mo na ang pag kontra sa nakararami dahil iba kang mag-isip sa paniniwala mo, walang magagawa ang mga tao sa paligid mo dahil para sa'yo mas matalino ka sa kanila. Kung feeling mo mas may wisdom ka dahil mas matanda ka sa mga kasamahan mo at madami kang na-experience kahit ang totoo ay mali ka na at tanga ka lang talaga, dahil sigurado kang tama ka, walang makaka-pigil sa'yo kahit na sino.

"Lie sits within the word beLIEve". Kahit ano pa man ang sitwasyon, wether tama ka o mali, ikasa-sama mo man o hindi, pangit man o maganda, kung ano ang pinaniniwalaan mo 'yun pa din ang susundin mo. Nagkakatalo-talo lang naman 'yan sa resulta ng sitwasyon eh.

Laro, laro, laro...

Unconsciously, aminin man natin o hindi, may certain na laro tayong sinusundan sa bawat relasyon, buhay, pag-ibig, trabaho, kaaway, kaibigan at kapamilya. Pati sa sarili mo, nakikipag-laro ka din. At ang catch pa dito, kapag hindi ka marunong makipag-laro, talo ka kahit anong galing mo o kahit anong buti mo o kaya nama'y kahit gaano pa ka-sincere ng intention mo, dapat mo pa ding matutunang makipag-laro. Kahit hindi ka player, you will be forced to become one.

Ang rules ng laro ay applicable sa lahat ng sitwasyon sa buhay, but I'd like to focus more on love, siyempre... I'm a hopeless romantic guy, ano pa ba? Napa-pansin ko kasi na kahit gaano mo kagusto ang isang tao, kahit mahal na mahal niyo ang isa't-isa, kung hindi marunong makipag-laro ang partner, for sure matagal na ang 5 months sa relasyon niyo. Ang dami kong kakilalang ganyan, ako mismo nakaranas na. Naalala ko 'yung isang episode ng "Sex and the City" sabi dun, kapag first date mo, whether lalaki ka o babae, kelangan ikaw yung hinahabol. Hindi ka dapat maunang tumawag sa kanya after ng date, kapag tumawag siya today, maghintay ka muna ng about 2-3 days bago ka tumawag uli, para hindi ka magmukhang nagkakandarapa sa kanya. Kapag mag-asawa na, kelangan mag-pretend kang masaya ka palagi pag dating sa sex kung ayaw mong hiwalayan ka. Pag dating sa break ups, dapat pag nagkita kayo ng ex mo, kelangan maganda ka para hindi niya sabihing youre still mourning. Things like that na I really find it absurd.

Bakit kailangan pa nating makipag-laro sa mga taong gusto natin, mahal natin, at malapit sa puso natin? Ako, makikipag-laro ako sa mga taong pampalipas ko lang ng libog, 'yung tipong one night stand lang, 'yung mga taong kinaiinisan ko, 'yung mga taong gusto ko talagang paglaruan at pagtawanan. Pero bakit ganun ang tao? Mahal naman nila, umaayaw pa, gusto naman nila, pakipot pa, naghahanap noon, ngayong andiyan na, ang daming "pero" ang daming demands. Nakaka-lito din ang tao eh no? Hindi natin alam kung ano ba talaga ang gusto natin. At ang nakaka-tuwa dito, 'yung gusto natin ay nagbabago every now and then, especially kapag nakuha na natin 'yung gusto natin, we'll be looking for something else.

May kilala akong nagsabing: "gusto ko sa guy 'yung mamahalin ako ng totoo, kahit hindi ganun ka-gwapo basta may koneksiyon kaming dalawa..." ang perfect diba? Kikiligin ka eh pag narining mo. Kaso, 'nung dumating na 'yung taong 'yun - pang-relasyon material eh, hindi ganun ka-gwapo pero 'yung character and personality niya ang nagpapa-gwapo sa kanya. May kilig namang nararamdaman, pero bakit kulang pa rin sa kanya. Biglang nabago ng kaunti 'yung "gusto" niya. This time, kelangan gwapo na... We are still looking for something better than that, I don't know kung ano na naman ang gugustuhin niya after niyang makuha 'yung "gwapo".

Kung sino man ang nagpa-uso ng larong ito, hindi maganda. Hindi maganda ang reasoning at goal ng naimbento niyang laro. Pero I have to admit, dahil sa larong ito nagkakaroon ng thrill ang bawat relasyon na alam ko. But still, itong larong ito, doesn't serve the purpose of love. Kung ganun lang kasi, HINDI LOVE ANG GUSTO NATIN, THRILL ANG GUSTO NATIN. Naiinis ako each time na may gumagamit ng love as their reason to escape, kesyo wala ng love na nararamdaman etc. where in fact, THRILL ang nawala na pinipilit pa din nating hinahanap-hanap sa iba't-ibang tao. Kasi kung mahal mo talaga ang isang tao, wala kang paki-alam sa rules, sa mga dos and don'ts, sa mga sasabihin ng tao, sa sasabihin mo sa sarili mo, hanggat alam mong ibinibigay mo ng buo ang pagmamahal mo, 'yun ang love.

Sana wala nalang laro, sana puro nalang love.

Let's Do It Together

I've met a gay couple, about six month ago. They've been together for 8 years! I was like amazed on how they kept the fire burning the fact that they're living in together and knowing almost everything about each other, but they still find each other sexy.

I got to know them through manjam -- an online gay social networking site. It was like 10 O'clock in the morning when they sent me a message asking me if I'd like to have fun by starting a day with a threesome, I liked the idea so I meet them. They're like in their early 30's but still good looking and of course in shape. When I arrived, they were very warm and friendly, "professional" if I may call it. It took us approximately 20 minutes of light conversation and knowing basic things about each other before we started the party. It was a great play, the players were open and mature. It was one of the plays that I enjoyed.

One thing came into my senses after that, I think they're not doing it because they're not faithful nor they don't find each other attractive anymore, they simply do it to just add twist in their relationship. I've known several couples who does the same thing to keep the relationship going and make it more exciting. I myself, did it once. We cannot ignore the fact that no matter how much we try to keep the attraction for each other, temperature will eventually drop especially when we get too familiar on everything. Every strand of his hair, every freckle on his chest, every wrinkle when he smiles, every time he says "I love you". You'll get used to them not because you're tired of them but because you know they won't go away. And most of the time, we often misinterpret this "security" to something ugly as what we call "falling out of love".

What's Wrong With Being Number 2?

Most of us would like to be on top, will do everything to get out of the bottom. Being number 1 is the locus of our system, for business, for career, for studies, for relationships, for family, everything. I mean, billions of people in the world are striving to be the best and be the number one without realizing that it's like YOU vs. the WORLD. That would be real tough to prove your worth to everyone, right?

I've read a small yet powerful book of Mitch Albom, "Tuesdays With Morrie". Morrie Schwartz said, unconsciously, all of us would like to be recognized on all the things that we do and that's not a crime. But most of the time, we tend to focus on reaching the top without appreciating what we have accomplished so far. There's this part of the book where Morrie and his student Mitch were at the gym, there was a cheerleading group practicing and doing their stunts and chants. Morrie noticed something in their chant, they kept on saying "we're number 1" annoyingly. So what Morrie did, he stood up and shouted, "what's wrong with being number 2 ?!!"

Yeah, there's really nothing wrong with being number 2, in fact, it's already an achievement being the second best. That line shook me up from head to toe. I've never been the best on everything, the truth is, I even consider myself as a mediocre creature. But that line made me feel better and realized that there's really nothing wrong being me, being number 2.

Thailand

I'm planning to visit Thailand for 5 days or a week by the end of this year. I'm still doing some research so I could see as much tourist spots as I could for that short period of time. Hoping PAL or Cebu Pacific has airfare promos to Thailand soon. My problem is, since I'll be travelling alone, baka maligaw ako. lolz.

Akala Ko

Akala ko malakas ako, akala ko kaya ko, akala ko tapos na ako sa ganitong stage, mali pala ako. Mayroon palang mga bagay na akala ko noon naiintindihan ko at madaling desisyunan pero ngayon ko lang natutunan na "there are certain things that are not meant to be."

I don't know what's wrong with me, bakit until now naghahanap pa din ako. Hinahanap ko pa din yung "somebody" na yun, na kokompleto sa akin. Ayoko ng komplikadong buhay pero, ako mismo ay isang malaking komplikadong tao. I know na everything has the right time for the right moment. Naintindihan ko na may mga bagay na hindi dapat madaliin, kasi ilang beses ko ng naranasang maiwan sa ere, clueless, at hindi alam ang next move dahil sa pagmamadali ko. I thought natutunan ko na ang lesson ko, akala ko kaya ko ng i-handle ang mga ganung sitwasyon, hindi pala. Nangyari na naman, naiwan na naman ako dahil sa kagustuhan kong magmadali. Hindi ko alam kung pangit ba ako, sobra bang O.A. ang pag eexpress ko ng nararamdaman ko, do I need to hide my feelings, or do I have to play this put*ng in*ng game na 'to? 

Masarap ang pakiramdam ng may makikilala kang may connection agad, na alam mo deep inside "pwede eh". 'Yung pakiramdam na lagi kang puno. Punong-puno 'yung puso mo dahil sa sobrang saya ng nararamdaman mo everytime na kausap mo siya, ka-text, kapag tumatawag siya, everytime na nagkaka-salubong ang mga mata niyo, every moment na naiisip mo siya, nami-miss mo siya, gusto mo siyang yakapin, halikan, pagsilbihan, maka-tabi habang nanonood ng dvd, o kaya panoorin lang siyang mahimbing na natutulog. 'Yun 'yung mga moments na priceless, 'yung mga moments na hindi ko kailangang magkunwari, magtago, mangarap. At ang mga ito, mas masarap kapag naibubuhos ko lahat sa kanya, lahat-lahat, walang ititira, buong-buo, walang hesitations, walang inhibitions, walang doubts, walang fears, walang laro, just pure love. I don't believe dun sa kasabihang 'pag nagmahal ka, dapat magtira sa sarili, that's bullshit. Dahil iba 'yung love sa sarili at iba din 'yung love sa partner. You can give 100% love sa sarili mo at 100% sa partner mo. Kung mawala siya at hindi mag-work out ang relasyon, edi nawala ang 100% for him, but you still have your own 100% sa sarili mo.

Corny na kung corny, pero ganun eh. May nakapag-sabi sa aking "ikaw kasi, hindi mo man lang ako hinayaang habulin ka". In a way, my point siya. Hindi ko man lang siya hinayaang ma-develop 'yung nararamdaman niya for me, hindi ko man lang siya pina-hinog, hindi man lang ako nag-pakipot. Pero anong gagawin ko? 'yun ang nararamdaman ko, 'yun ang sinasabi ng puso ko. Bakit ako magpapa-habol kung ayokong tumakbo, ayokong lumayo? ako nga yung humahabol eh. Ang mga hinahabol lang ay 'yung mga pinipilit at uma-ayaw. Ang mali lang sa akin, hindi ko kayang kontrolin ang puso ko, ang nararamdaman ko. Ang mali sa akin, hindi ko kayang sundin ang rules ng so-called "laro" ng buhay at pag-ibig.

Siguro nga, I have to analyze everything, baguhin ng konti ang strategy ko, at pag-aralan ang rules ng laro na alam kong permanente na sa mundo. Pero kumbinsido pa rin ako sa isang bagay - giving all the love that you could give no matter what happens. 'Yun lang kasi ang maio-offer ko sa mahal ko nothing else. Dun ko lang kasi masasabing "I did my part". Ayokong mabuhay ng may regrets, may what ifs and maybes.

Akala ko, sabi nila if you love someone, just be yourself and let the love guide you, mali na naman pala 'yun. Ang gulo ng buhay, ang komplikado ng tao, nakaka-pagod. Pero siyempre, I have no other choice but to accept what I have and enjoy what's left for me. Andyan naman palagi ang alter ego ko eh, the strong me who will always be there to catch me everytime I fall. Maybe I'm addicted to pain, addicted to its consequences, and to what I will be getting from it. 

Akala ko may tao pang willing mag-buhos ng totoong pagma-mahal ng walang kondisyon, pagmamahal na walang ibang attachments, pagmamahal na yayakapin ako ng buong-buo at mahigpit na tipong hindi na ako pakakawalan pa. Pagmamahal na mamahalin ko din sa sarili kong paraan. Akala ko meron pang ganun, pero parang wala na eh, nauubusan na ako ng oras. Sana this time, mali ako. But I'm not losing hope, I'll be waiting for that somebody, gaano man siya katagal.

Porn parodies

nakaka tawa pala ang mga movie parodies na ginagawang porn. hahahhah merong tarzan X, batman X, superman X pati twilight X. WHAHAHAHAH. im now downloading catwoman X.  LOLZ

They Walk Amongst Us

I'm just 28, but I've met a lot of people, and I know how to identify one from the other. I just like to warn y'all about what I call a "Chameleon". They walk among us, but they're not like us. They will surely break your heart, tear it apart, and will not stop as long as they know there's still a single spark of hope in you that they could feed into. They will suck you dry up to the last drop of respect that you have for yourself.

First, he'll tell you about his dreams and plans, his beliefs about relationships. He will make you feel that he's into serious and long term relationships, he will make you fall for him. Second, when he knows that you're on it, he'll give you chance. Of course you'll grab that chance hoping for the possibilities. And then, he'll show you all the cues and signs that he's into you too, you'll fall for that. You will stay in that stage for a while, waiting, hoping. Chameleons will lie low for a moment, then you'll be clueless, you'll think you did something wrong. Then you will exert extra effort to keep him, he will like it, he will again indulge himself to all the benefits that he could get from you. Somehow you'll be happy because you know that he's having fun with you, only at your own expense. He will enjoy that moment, and he will do everything to keep that moment as it is. But your heart is telling you otherwise. You want more than that, you want confirmation, you want security, you wanna make sure that he's yours. No one can blame you, you're just following your heart, you're just being true to yourself. But sadly, he will refuse, he will bluntly tell you that he wanted to stay with what you currently have for whatever crappy reasons that he could use. Somehow, it will sound he's right, and it's your fault. But if you're going to scrutinize the situation further, you'll see that its a win-loose situation. He's winning, 'cause he get's to enjoy all the benefits but you're loosing, because you don't know where to stand. You're confused, you're troubled. The worst part is, he'll play naive. Despite that he's aware of your feelings for him, he'll be real sweet to you and you'll get crushed to death by the thought that it's nothing for him, that you're just a special friend.

Then you'll find yourself crying, hurting from the fact that you were rejected. And realization comes into the picture, you'll try to let go of your feelings for him, it will be hard, but it will be even harder, because as you are trying to let go of him, he will start giving you another hope, another smile, another reason for you to stay and keep your feelings for him. Then it will become a cycle, like nowhere else to go, just like you're stuck with him, with that feeling that will never grow at all. A stagnant dead water -- rotten, lifeless. You'll be rejected twice, the third time, maybe more than that. Until you loose your heart, your personality, your character, yourself. 

If you're not strong enough to get away from this blackhole, you'll get eaten by it alive and you'll be lost inside yourself. You'll be in the midst of an ugly truth that cannot be erased. However, on the other hand, if you were able to fight this rogue heart and redeemed your self-respect, the fulfillment is astounding. You'll be wiser, you'll be extra careful and you'll know how to identify a chameleon.

We can't easily identify them, we're not sure who they are, or what they look like. But one thing is for sure, they're here and they're watching us. It could be the one sitting beside you, or you just don't know, maybe... you're one of them.

"The darkest soul can't be found in hell, they walk amongst us, pretending to be one of us."

Ganito Ka Ba Mag-English?

Try mo 'tong intindihin...

SI INDAY...

SI INDAY...

It was jazz an ordinary day. The skies

were clear, the birds were chipping. Ang ganda-ganda ng araw!

Nasa SM ako noon at katatapos ko lang

mamili ng groceries. Timing naman nasa foodcore si Angel Locsin,

nagpro-provoke ng movie nya. Grabe, andaming fans, pull-packed talaga!

Dahil fans nya rin ako, nakipila rin ako.

Then suddenly, out of the loo, may

bumulong sa akin ng: "Indaaaayyyy......"

Huh? It sounded like a familiar sound.

Who can it be now? "Dodong!" sigaw ko.

Napalakas yata voice ko. Kasi the other

fans turned their backs to their behind at napatingin sa amin. Sabi ko

"Sorry, I didn't mean to be loud and proud." Hinawakan na lang ni Dodong

ang kamay ko at lumayo kami from the crowd.

"Kamusta na Inday? Do you come here

open? tanong nya.

"Bihira lang, Dodong. I'm just droppings

by. Ethnic and schedule ko eh" sabi ko.

Memories came flushing in my mind. How

can I forget to remember Dodong? Siya na may mata ni Piolo, dimple ni

Aga, at bigote ni Rex Cortez. he's every woman's dreamboat. I was just

starting my tour of duty kay ate noon nang unang makilala ko si Dodong.

Contraction worker siya sa ginagawang bahay sa tapat namin. Naging kami

for a while then after that were not an item anymore.

"Tanghali na Inday. What did you say we

have lunch together?" tanong ni Dodong. "I don't mine" sagot ko. Sa

restaurant, nilapitan kaagad kami ng waiter. "What's your odor sir?"

Sabi nung waiter kay Dodong.

"Do you have porkshop?" tanong ni

Dodong.

"Yes sir" sabi nito. "Our porkshop with

a resistance to the teeth of Boast of our chef. Domestic careful

selection of pork with little fat of Female liking is used. The

exquisite cooking which repeated trial and error and Was completed. it

also has healthy vegetables with salad feeling fully" Dagdag niya.

"And you mam?" sabay tingin naman sa

akin.

Hmmm... mukhang masarap yung porkshop.

Pero I'm cutting down on my carbon kaya pinigilan ko.

"I'll just have water, thanks. Liquidate

diet ako eh." sagot ko.

Pagkatapos kumain, nagyaya si Dodong

manood ng sine. Teka teka, this is going too far. Besides, it's a long,

long way to run.

"Reality chess, Dodong. May asawa na

ako, si Jay. As a mother of fact, I'm happily married" pagmamalaki ko.

"Di na pwede yung tulad ng dati. Sorry

pero I didn't expect you still have more feelings than I expected. i

don't want you getting the way. Past is fast. Therefore, cause and

defect." dagdag ko pa.

Tumahimik sya. Parang may language

barrel na namagitan sa amin. The Seconds that passed seemed like

fraternity. Di nagla-on, nagsalita na rin sya.

"I don't care less!" sigaw ni Dodong.

Shocks, give me a brake! The nerd ng

taong ito para sigawan ako! To Think it's his other woman that caused

our separation to part.

Kinabahan na ako. I felt speedbumps all

over my body and was having Panic attach. Tinalikuran ko siya at

nagmadali akong lumakad palayo. Pero Sumunod pa rin siya like a monkey

on my butt. Hanggang sa makakita ako ng Security guard. Biglang nawala

si Dodong.

"Excuse me kuya, pwedeng magtanong?"

sabi ko sa mamang guard.

"Of course miss, I can help you with my

pleasure." sagot niya.

"Saan po ba ang exit? Could you point me

to the right erection? I got Lost in my eyes."

"Diretso lang." sabi niya. "Then turn

right anytime with care."

"Thanks for your corporation" sabi ko.

Buti na lang nandun si kuya. Pero saglit

lang, I smell something peachy. As I turned, nakita ko na namang

nakasunod si Dodong! Delaying static lang pala kanina ang pag disappear

nya.

"Nyahahaha! You can run but you can

hide, Inday. No matter where you go, there you are!" pananakot nya.

Oh no, is this the end? This is too

much, I feel degradable. My world started falling afar.

Then suddenly, Jay come from behind!

Dodong was caught to the act! In the matter of minute, it's all over.

I'm out of arm's way.

"Thanks Jay, my love. But how did you?"

bago pa man ako matapos, sabi niya:

"I was in the neighborhood. Fans din ako

ni Angel eh. I heard you shout But at first I didn't give it a thought.

Pero nang makita ko kayong magkahawak ng holding hands, then i give it a

thought. I know something is a missed."

From then on, Dodong did not brother me

again. In fact, he didn't even sister me. As in platonic at wala na

talaga.

Pero kami ni Jay, heto, shoot sailing pa

rin ang relationship. Lalo pa ngayon, open na kami sa isa't-isa at

walang exhibitions. i feel I'm on cloud.

BISEXUAL????? O BAKLA?????

people got no idea what bisexuality really means... and surprisingly ang mga bakla pa ang nalilito dito... typical connotation ng pinoy sa "bi" ay kilos lalaki, bihis lalaki, pormang lalaki, lalaki magsalita, at ayaw ng gay scenes "daw". karamihan sa mga nakahalubilo ko sa ganitong mundo ay ipagpipilitan nilang 'bi' sila samantalang ni kahit isang babae wala pa silang natitikman kundi puro lalaki lang. yung iba may natikman ng babae, pero once or twice palang as compare sa mga natikmang lalaki na hindi na halos mabilang sa dami. ano ba talaga ang totoong kahulugan ng bisexuality? and what is soooo wrong embracing yourself that you are gay? linawin natin ito.... 

BISEXUAL ang isang tao pag pumapatol siya sa parehong lalaki at babae, walang preferences, kung ano ang nakahain, yun ang kakainin. kahit baklang bakla ka at transvestite ka pa kung pinapatos mo pa din ang parehong lalaki at babae, BISEXUAL ka pa din... 

on the other hand, ang BAKLA o pagiging BAKLA ay hindi lamang naka- kahon sa malamyang kilos, sa malanding pagsasalita, sa pagsusuot ng pambabaeng mga damit, o kaya sa paglalagay ng make up sa mukha. "bakla ka kung hanap mo ay kapwa mo lalaki yun yon" discreet ka man o loud, transvestite ka man o baklang parlor, byukonera ka man o pasweet lang, iisa lang ang hanap natin -- TITI.

ngayon, maraming bakla sa pinas na sooobrang ginagamit ang label na "BI" to hook up. duh, eh baka mag unahan pa kayong tumuwad pag nasa kama na kayo eh... siguro ang point ko lang dito ay... we dont need to label things to separate one from the other, kung kailangan talaga nating mag-label siguraduhin naman nating naiintindihan talaga natin ang totoong kahulugan at gagamitin natin ito sa nararapat na gamit nito...